New charity seeks to bring assistance to law enforcement families with special needs children, kids with autism


Policing has never been an easy job, and recent times have done nothing but further complicate it and make it more trying. For those officers that are also a parent of a child with special needs, the situation is almost unfathomable.

And yet, this is the life of thousands of officers across our nation. They serve their communities with honor and nobility during their shifts, and then they go home to help with their special needs child.

No matter what a parent’s profession, their children are always on their minds at some point during their workday. But none more so than those who have needs beyond what’s considered “normal.”

For officers, this double duty of service in a dynamic and sometimes dangerous environment on one end, and a challenging and frustrating environment on the other can lead to extreme and complete exhaustion.

Robert Greenberg, who has been in law enforcement for over 30 years and is currently serving in Florida, had law enforcement families such as these on his heart increasingly throughout the years.

He met with Mathew Silverman and John Wiley, and the three formulated a plan to find a way to serve these officers and their families.

Thus, Blue Hearts for Heroes was born.

Blue Hearts for Heroes is a 501(c)(3), its mission is to support law enforcement families who have children with special needs.

The website reads:

“Blue Hearts for Heroes is dedicated to improving the quality of life of children with special needs and their families by developing and disseminating essential skills, knowledge, and values through research, teaching, and service.”

According to Robert, the idea is that when officers can be comforted knowing that their spouses and children are getting the assistance they need at home, those officers will be better able to focus on protecting and serving the citizens of their communities.

As it says on the website, Blue Hearts for Heroes is “committed to assisting law enforcement heroes with the help they need so they can continue assisting the citizens of the communities they serve.”

What a beautiful notion and an honorable mission.

Robert was asked about his decision to start this specific type of nonprofit. He said:

“It’s simple. There’s currently no type of support specifically aimed at officers with duties that go above and beyond the ‘normal’ realm of family once they hang up their uniform for the day. I wanted to change that.

“I want to be able to help reduce stress for these officers in any way I can, especially in this climate. Through education and acts of service, I believe we can accomplish that.”

Like Robert, Mathew has served many years in law enforcement, having just passed the 20-year mark. For him, starting the Blue Hearts for Heroes was a way to take his many years of community service to a new level.

Mathew said:

“Being active in police organizations and advocating for my fellow officers just didn’t feel like enough. I wanted to find a way to serve those who are serving our communities and felt an especially strong pull towards the officers that had even more struggles on the home front.”

Permanently disabled in the line of duty, John knew a thing or two about facing extra hardships at home. He was able to rebuild his life after law enforcement and become the host of a nationally syndicated radio show, which has led to him meeting hundreds of officers in all walks of life.

John said:

“I talked with so many officers who have special needs children at home, and I just feel like I connect with them. Everyone goes through times with a little bit of extra struggles, but this isn’t just a phase- it’s their whole lives. We want these families to know that we see them and they’re not alone.”

Robert, Mathew, and John have brought an impressive group together to form the board for their nonprofit, including other active police officers, one who has two sons with autism, as well as a PH.D.

Blue Hearts for Heroes is ready to bring training, blessings, and support to families of police officers with special needs children.

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Autism Awareness: There’s no such thing as a routine police encounter. Here’s how we can protect both kids and cops.

June 17, 2020

Most law enforcement professionals know that there is no such thing as a “routine” call for service. There’s no such thing as a “routine” traffic stop. There’s no room for the word “routine” in terms of police response.

Law enforcement situations are fluid, and subjects are all different with their own set of responses to situations and stimuli. This is especially true when the subject is possibly in fight or flight mode, which people often are during or right before an encounter with police.

It’s even more difficult to predict how a subject will react to an encounter with police officers when they have mental health issues or disorders like autism. People who are diagnosed with autism often have difficulty with communication as well as social interaction.

Police expect a subject to follow commands given to them in order to keep everyone involved in the situation safe. When a subject responds in a manner other than how the officer orders, or other than how the officer might expect, there might be confusion on the officer’s part.

With confusion comes misunderstanding. With misunderstanding can come harm.

This is why it’s extremely important for police to be trained in the mannerisms of people with autism and the appropriate responses for dealing with them.

As discussed previously, those with autism may have certain ways of expressing themselves (also called stimming) that an officer may not be familiar with without proper training. For example, when an officer tells a subject to “freeze,” a subject with autism may be trying to quell his nervousness and may therefor stand still, but flap his arms wildly as a form of comfort.

If an officer isn’t aware of that possibility, they may see the furtive movement as a threat, when in actuality it is not.

Contrarily, if the officer recognizes the signs that a person may be displaying autistic attributes, he can then adjust his expectations accordingly and deal with the subject in a more understanding and appropriate manner.

The big question now is how does an officer receive the training that’s necessary to gain more understanding? The training that goes beyond sitting in a classroom and reading a book, listening to someone talk, or watching a power point?

VirTra has the answer with V-VICTA™- Virtual Interactive Coursework Training Academy – Autism Awareness Curriculum.

The training was developed with officer as well as subject safety in mind. It’s comprised of both classroom and simulation training, which immerses the officer into a situation much like one might experience in real life.

Additionally, VirTra partnered with Southwest Autism Research & Resource Center (SARRC) to ensure the most realistic training available, including the use of role players who actually have autism. That’s the most real-life training possible, and it’s only available with VirTra.

Some of the information officers can expect to receive from this training includes how to recognize signs of frustration. People with autism prefer things to be told to them in simple and concrete manners, and if things start to go beyond the scope of normalcy for them, they could get upset.

A subject with autism becoming upset could escalate to a negative encounter with police, and so de-escalation tactics are particularly important with an autistic subject.

Likewise, touching a subject, moving too quickly, or using loud noises or yelling will likely upset the subject and not result in a positive outcome.

One possible coping mechanism is keeping one’s hands in their pockets. As we in law enforcement are well aware of, one of the most important pieces of officer safety is the phrase “show me your hands.”

If an officer is able to recognize early on that a subject is autistic, they will be able to lower their heightened threat perception, calmly talk to the person so that he understands why he needs to have his hands out of his pockets, and patiently wait for the subject to understand what is happening and what he needs to do.

This training doesn’t villainize the police. It doesn’t tell officers that they need to compromise their safety when dealing with a subject who is possibly autistic.

What it does do, however, is teach an officer how to recognize an autistic subject and train them on how to best deal with them. This limits the risk of someone being unnecessarily hurt during an encounter with police.

One positive interaction with law enforcement is more likely to produce more positive interactions in the case of future encounters, so it is in everyone’s best interest to push for a positive outcome.

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